1. You're dating someone great, but suddenly you get the urge to bolt. Sound familiar? *

Yeah, like a reflex! Something just tells me to get out.

Kinda, I end up overthinking about how I can make things perfect.

It does. I start waiting for them to hurt me, just like before.

Honestly? It's more like, "Do I even deserve this?"

You nailed it. I keep wondering, "What if they're not the one?"

2. What's your gut reaction to someone being head over heels for you? *

I freak out a little—like, why lock it down so fast?

I'm flattered, but really, what do they need from me this time?

I get scared. What if I can't handle it and it all goes wrong?

I start doubting. Me? Really? Are they just being nice?

It's tough. My ex used to be like that... I miss that.

3. When it's "define the relationship" time, what's your heart saying? *

It's shouting, "Abort mission!" Why does it have to be so serious?

Whispering, "You better make sure they're happy first."

Muttering, "Brace for impact. This could hurt."

Sighing, "Hope you're up to the task. Don't mess it up."

Sighing, "This is nice and all, but it's not like the last time."

4. If love was a classroom, which subject would you probably fail? *

Commitment 101. I mean, can't we just enjoy now and not label it?

Self-Worth Studies. It's tough to remember my value when I'm trying to be perfect for them.

Trust and Openness. I've got some walls up from the last time I got burned.

Acceptance and Belonging. Deep down, there's this voice saying I'm not enough.

History of Exes. I keep flipping back to the chapters I know by heart.

5. Your bestie just got proposed to, and you're... *

Happy for them, but inside, I'm like, "Better you than me!"

Super happy! But also, how do I make my next date that into me?

Cheering on the outside, panicking on the inside about ever letting someone that close.

Smiling, while quietly asking myself, "When will I ever feel that worthy?"

Honestly? A bit envious. Why can't I get over my ex and find that too?

6. You see a couple's cute Insta post. Your first thought? *

They look happy, but I bet it's not all sunshine and roses.

Aw, that's sweet. I'd do anything to have someone look at me like that.

Cute, but part of me is just waiting for the drama update.

They're so in sync. I'm not sure I'd ever fit with someone like that.

Ugh, reminds me of my old relationship. I miss that.

7. What's the biggest fear that keeps you from diving into a new romance? *

That I'll feel trapped. I love my space too much.

That I'll lose myself in making them happy and forget about me.

That I'll get my heart trampled on... again.

That they'll see the real me and realize they could do better.

That it won't measure up to what I had before.

8. After a breakup, how long before you're back on the dating scene? *

Give me a minute to catch my breath. I'm in no rush.

I dive back in. Gotta keep trying until I get it right, right?

It takes a while. Got to build up the courage again.

Honestly? I procrastinate. Not sure if I'm worth the hassle.

It's complicated. I'm kind of waiting for my ex to come back.

9. Imagine a day where you feel totally loved. What's missing to make that a reality? *

The pressure! If we could just hang without all the "where is this going" talk...

Me feeling like I'm enough just as I am. That would be something.

The fear of it all crashing down. That'd be nice to lose.

The little voice that says I'm not worth sticking around for.

The past, honestly. It's like a ghost haunting my love life.

10. Your friend says, "There are plenty of fish in the sea!" You think... *

Sure, but do I want to swim with them or stay solo in my cozy little pond?

Yep, and I'm trying to be the kind of fish someone would catch and never throw back.

True, but I'm not sure I'm ready to swim with them just yet. Got to heal from the last shark bite.

I get that, but what if none of those fish think I'm a catch?

Of course, but I'm kind of still hooked on one that got away.

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